What Can I Do To Help Myself Cope?

If you're feeling overwhelmed or out of control, you might want to try different methods of calming yourself down. There are some specific strategies that a crisis team might try to use with you to manage and minimize any symptoms you might be experiencing.

Coping techniques are simple exercises that try to accept, address and reduce the things you are experiencing.

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Making a plan for the next few hours


If you are finding it difficult to focus or are unsure how to manage your day, writing down what you'll do next might help you feel more in control of the situation.

Relaxing and calming exercises

If you are feeling anxious or scared there are many things you can do to help yourself cope.

- Take A Break From What You Are Doing
- Focus On Your Breathing
- Listen To Music
- Spend Some Time In Nature
- Try Active Relaxation (Pilates, Yoga or Meditation)

Coping with scary thoughts

Some people experience thoughts that are frightening or alarming you. They could be about suicide, harming yourself, harming others, or hearing voices.


If you are having thoughts that frighten or alarm you but it's not an emergency, there are some steps you can take to coping and managing in your day to day until those thoughts go away. This could include thoughts about suicide, harming yourself, harming others, or hearing voices and other hallucinations.

Describe your thoughts

It might help to write down how you're feeling. This is a safe space where you can reflect, try to clear your mind and attempt to make sense of what you're experiencing.

How Can I Distract Myself?

How can I distract myself?

If you are finding it difficult to process what you're going through, you might prefer to shift your attention onto something else for a while.

This is where you can take a break and immerse yourself in a soothing or relaxing activity that you enjoy.

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Practical activities

Sometimes it helps to immerse yourself in a creative or practical activity.

- Writing

(Immersing yourself in a world you have created, or focusing on how words fit together and sound can be a great way of occupying your mind if there's too much going on for you right now.)

- Crafting

(Lots of people find crafting a good distraction if their thoughts and feelings become too overwhelming.)

- Playing Music

(There's something about music for many people, which can have have a really powerful impact on your mood.)

Websites and apps

We asked other users of this tool and our supporters what the most distractingly fun bits of the internet were.
Videos, websites and apps

While it can be useful to work through difficult thoughts and feelings, sometimes you just want to take your mind off what you're going through.

Here are some things people have suggested that help them to think about something else when they are really struggling.

- Ted Talk Videos
- Funny Animals Video
- Weave Silk
- ToneMatrix

Games and puzzles

Games are often about problem solving. It might help to focus on solving something unrelated to what you are going through right now.

- GeoGuesser
-Jigsaw Planet
- 2048 Game
- PacMan